WHICH ONE IS BETTER?

Which one is better? To be in love or being loved?
When I was younger than I am now, I would prefer to be in love with someone. The reason is simple. Ask yourself! And you will think as I do.
To be in love, isnt it exciting? It makes one’s heart go doki doki. It makes one can’t sleep well at night coz thinking of his/her beloved one. It makes one blush. As simple as it is, the reason is one cannot simply reject the temptation to cross the path of love.
Love is a classic matter. Since the old day until this day, love happens, occurs, and grasps people’s day and night. It makes one happy, it makes one smile to the heart content, and even it makes one go crazy.
Yes, LOVE. That simple word. Love.

L.O.V.E.

But becoming older, makes me realize. Love can hurt me. Love can make me suffer so much. And it makes me realize, when I catch it or try to feel it, then I must suffer the consequencies. It just like coins, it has two sides. You cannot separate it. Without one, there is no the other.
YES

When you’re being in love, then you must prepare to face what they called as heartbroken. When your loved one is gone or when your loved one is there but never ‘see’ you. It just too cruel.
You love them with all you have, but you have to prepare whenever your love backfired. Isn’t it just too cruel??
On the other hand, being loved. It means you can handover that cruel destiny to others?? You’re just being loved. That means you dont have to suffer the curse? You can relax coz you dont have to bear the suffering.
I want someone to love me as I am. None other than I am. The only me. The real me. Maybe I’m just too scared to cross the path of love. I cannot stand to choose the step to the prelude of love. I cannot bear the suffering anymore. I just want to being loved truthfully, willfully.

Then once again, I just wanna ask you? Which one is better?? To be in love or being loved??